Reincarnation: Past Lives…Present Patterns
A Soul’s Journey Toward Self-Worth and Inner Love
By Donna Hartley and Mariah Hartley
Throughout the ages, many religions from Hinduism to Buddhism, from ancient Egyptian mysticism to modern metaphysical teachings have held the belief that we reincarnate. That means we have many past lives. Why? Not as punishment, but for our soul’s growth. Reincarnation allows the soul to return again and again to Earth to learn where the curriculum is written not in books, but in life experiences, lessons, and passions. Here, we learn deep soul lessons, heal long-held karmic patterns, reconnect with soul family members, and cultivate spiritual gifts that are carried forward in each lifetime. Each reincarnation is an opportunity for the soul to remember more of its own light. The struggles we face, the joys we embrace, the relationships we magnetize, and even the wounds we carry are all chosen by the soul to bring us closer to our true essence.
It is the soul’s sacred agreement to evolve through our experiences, relationships, and choices. Some are joyful, others painful, but always meaningful. Each life is a chance to have our own spiritual awakening, which is to reveal the eternal truth of who we are: whole, wise, and powerful.
One of the most profound lessons many souls return to master is the retainment of self-worth. The memory that we are not defined by our circumstances, but by the divine spark within us. It is the recognition that we are not here to become worthy; we are here to remember that we always were.
Yet this lesson often takes lifetimes to integrate. Cultural conditioning, generational trauma, and soul-level imprints from past incarnations can cloud this knowledge. The journey toward self-worth has many patterns, such as loss, abandonment, emptiness, betrayal, and deceit, but then also comes understanding, discovery, surrender, and awakening.
The following story of a woman named Genevieve tells of how past lives can impact our current life and how patterns can be repeated. She is a soul who has walked the Earth, across many centuries, each time returning with a central lesson: to know her worth and claim her power. Through incarnations, she moves from being silent to speaking her truth. Her story is not just about her; it belongs to countless women across time who have forgotten their light and are now remembering. This is Genevieve’s story and, maybe, it reflects your own.
Life One: The Silenced Sorcerer (France, 1400s)
Genevieve was born in a small village tucked into the countryside of medieval France, a time of superstition, plagues, and religious absolutism. From a young age, she was unlike the other children. She whispered to trees, spoke to the animals, and sensed energy around people. She healed injured animals, and villagers occasionally came to her secretly with ailments. Genevieve always wanted to help. She felt it was her purpose.
But in an era where this behavior by a female was feared, not revered, her gifts were seen as dangerous, witchcraft, they called it. Genevieve’s own mother, fearing for her safety and reputation, told her to hide her skills and habits. Eventually, she was accused of heresy and forced to live under the church’s surveillance, cleaning chambers and preparing meals in silence. She obeyed out of fear for years, but eventually, a desperate mother begged her help for her sick young son. Genevieve felt she needed to do something for the young child, and therefore she helped.
Once the church clergy heard about this, she was condemned by the clergy and sentenced to die. She was to be burned alive. Genevieve was only in her early twenties. She had brought shame to her family, they disowned her. The people of her village shouted and threw rocks at her as she walked to her execution. She thought she was helping people, but now she was confused. She had been trusting her inner voice, but now she died believing she was not worthy.
Life Two: The Devoted Wife (England, 1800s)
Centuries later her soul again agreed to come to Earth with a contract to develop her self-worth and trust her inner voice. Her soul returned with the name of Elizabeth in Victorian England, a society obsessed with propriety, appearance, and the illusion of control. Born into a moderately wealthy family, she was taught from childhood that obedience was virtue, and self-sacrifice was a woman’s highest calling.
Elizabeth had an artistic soul; she would sketch flowers into the margins of her lessons and write poetry under candlelight. She could sense when someone was in emotional pain before they ever spoke, but once again, she was never encouraged to trust these gifts. Her role was clear: marry well, serve dutifully, and keep quiet.
At 19, she married a man twice her age. John, her husband, was a successful, but rigid businessman who valued her silence over her soul. Over the years, Elizabeth tried to assert small freedoms: she once submitted a poem anonymously to a local paper, she even saved money in secret to leave the marriage. But each time, fear overtook her. In her world, societies’ norms did not offer her freedom.
She raised her children with care, was a dutiful wife, and died respected by her neighbors, but inside, she had never learned to love herself or be herself. She felt so much sadness and despair. Elizabeth measured her worth by the needs she fulfilled for others. Once again, the lesson of independence, self-expression, and inner power went unrealized.
Life Three: The Enlightened Woman (California, 2000s)
In this present lifetime, this soul chose a radically different environment. Reincarnated as Kelly, she was born into a world with more freedom. This time on Earth there were more choices. Oh yes, and distractions also. From an early age, Kelly felt things intensely. She couldn’t exactly explain how she felt, she had friends and did school activities, but she never felt like she had found her place. She was drawn to art, was attuned to the energies of others, but also battled with self-doubt, and the anxiety of not being good enough. However, she had to be realistic, these hobbies wouldn’t make a living.
Her choice of men was not healthy. She chose partners who echoed old patterns, boyfriends who needed saving, or ones who silenced her. She thought she was smart, but her opinion was not valued. So, she buried her intuitive gifts behind degrees, jobs, social media, and hiking in nature. But the soul doesn’t forget a contract. At age 33, everything began to unravel. A painful break-up, a job loss, and an inexplicable yearning for something more made her embark on a journey of self-discovery. She had heard other women talk about these deep periods and one even called it “ the dark night of the soul.”
After six months of being miserable she went to a meditation retreat. It was powerful. She didn’t know what was happening, but she began having jumbled-up dreams. She saw herself standing barefoot in a forest, healing and helping others, then she saw herself, in a different body, being burned at the stake.
A few months after the retreat, a girlfriend suggested Kelly should go to someone who could help her understand her past lives. The reading confirmed what she’d long felt: these memories belonged to her. These weren’t only patterns; they were imprints of her soul’s memory. These were other lives with lessons and gifts that she had lived, and now was the time to make the changes that she needed and wanted to make.
Kelly wanted to choose differently in this life. Small steps at first, until she immersed herself on her new path. She began studying energy work and embracing her intuition. She was blending business with creativity and spiritual empowerment. She began painting again, this time not for approval like when she was younger, but for joy and fulfillment. She even sold her paintings. She gave up trying to prove her worth, instead she claimed her self-worth. She was able to make a steady living doing what she loved. Previously she never thought that was possible. She was finally healing the scars of unworthiness.
Now, in her early sixties, Kelly is a very different person. She has confidence. She sometimes still has doubts but when it’s needed, she knows how to quiet the fears and move on with her life. She doesn’t have to be perfect. Life is a learning process. Her voice is steady; her intuition is her compass. Understanding her past life patterns helps clarify her purpose in this life. Knowing and understanding her past patterns in other lives gave her a clear vision for improving her present. The pain she carried was not punishment, and the lack of self-worth can be healed with forgiveness and love .
Reincarnation is not simply a return; it is the raising of one’s vibration and living in truth. We return not to repeat, but to remember, to learn and heal. Some souls return to complete stories of lost love or unresolved guilt. Others come to awaken hidden talents, embrace courage, or serve others from a place of authentic purpose. Every soul’s path is unique.
This soul’s journey shows the power of persistence across lifetimes. Her story reminds us that healing takes time, not just years, but sometimes it can take centuries. And that is okay. Because the soul is patient, it never forgets. Every step we take toward truth and unconditional love deepens our connection to our knowing that we are already worthy.


